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Workshops & Facilitators | Loving Men



Workshops & Facilitators

Confirmed so far: Programme may be subject to change













Andy Butterfield

Andy Butterfield is a yoga teacher and shiatsu therapist and folds his experience of different yoga styles, bodywork and meditation into his teaching and practice.

Andy is passionate about creating community and holding a safe, relaxed and meaningful space for gay and bi men to meet and explore intimacy, connection and joy.

He teaches for YogaNu, as well as other group and 1:1 classes and is based in London and Brighton.

Andy's MeetUp Group

email Andy

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Experience Shiatsu - the touch of the heart

Shiatsu is therapeutic bodywork that uses stretches, joint mobilisation, acupressure and holding to bring the body into a state of deep relaxation, supporting and balancing vital lifeforce energy.

In this physical and experiential workshop, you will work individually and with partners to learn simple shiatsu techniques that you can practice at home with loved ones. Come and experience how movement, stretching and touch can both enliven and deeply nourish and relax us.

You will remain fully clothed so please wear warm, loose, comfortable clothing. The workshop is available to anyone, but you should be able to sit or kneel comfortably on the floor.

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Amanda Gay Love

Amanda Gay Love is passionate about queers of all descriptions having great sex. Over the last 20 years she has been fairly obsessed with LGBT issues and queer sexualities. Amanda has extensive training in relationship therapy, women's sexuality, queer theory, tantra, and BDSM practices. She creates Queer Hearted spaces so that people can explore and expand their sensual, sexual and spiritual potential. Ultimately she is all about pleasure and ensuring that people have a myriad of ways to get it.

Amanda facilitates gender and sexuality experiences that are healing transformative loving joyfests. As well as running her own teaching spaces and workshops she produces a number of events and supports practitioners to ensure we all get to have shiner and more loving queer times when we get together. She also holds love rituals for queer couples, coaching, support and supervision for sex workers and body workers.

Find her at QueerHearted.com

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Breath and Energy Connection

This workshop will involve using breath, sound, movement and intention to create a process where participants can have a breath and energy orgasm allowing them to journey into their queer heart. Its gender free and genital free, instead bringing forth sprit and willfullness to create orgasmic potential.

This practice is a queer hearted tantric technique which brings potential for connecting with our precious LGBT+ sexualities as sites of ecstatic joy, healing and liberation. This workshop will involve working on your own. Please wear lose comfortable clothing and perhaps bring a blanket or sarong to place over you.

Connecting with Power

In this workshop we will explore how power intersects with our sex and sexualities. Deepening our relationship to power to juice up connections with ourselves and others through using ancient and modern sacred practices. We will create a safe container to explore as we then delve into meeting our most powerful selves. Then in pairs you will be guided through a range of exercises to help balance, amp up and journey with the power between you and a partner. Finally, there will be the opportunity to use impact and intense sensation to bring another layer of power play.

The workshop is for all levels of experience and curiosity. You will be asked to work with different people at different times, you may also bring a partner and work with them for the whole workshop.

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Dennis L Carney

Dennis L Carney is a co-founder of Loving Men. He has completed 12 years post-graduate training in humanistic integrative psychotherapy at Spectrum and also teaches a range of short counselling and personal development courses at The City Literary Institute, London.

Dennis has a passion for working with groups & also delivers a range of training courses on Diversity, LGBT Equality, Team Building, Anger Management, Personal & Professional Development. Dennis also runs a small private practice that offers personal development sessions to clients.

Dennis' website

Tell Me Who You Are

This highly interactive workshop, will explore how honest & authentic we are when telling others who we really are.

Using a combination of simple exercises, theoretical concepts and group discussion we will identify what helps or hinders us from telling others who we are; in a fun, intimate, confidential and supportive space.

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Simon Marks

Simon Marks is an MA qualified Dramatherapist, counsellor and LGBTQ+ group facilitator. Dramatherapy draws on the creative arts - and powerfully fuses them with the therapeutic process.

Simon specialises in LGBTQ+ mental health, recovery and healing the inner-child. He has been running group and individual Dramatherapy sessions since 2015, providing a safe and contained space for creative expression, connection and personal reflection.

Simon runs the popular gay and bisexual men's discussion group A Change Of Scene.

Simon' s website

email Simon

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Dramatherapy Taster: Discovering Your Hero's Inner Gold

Trying to connect to ourselves and each other isn't easy when we're blocked by our own shadow. Also known as the inner-critic or saboteur, the shadow and its many manifestations might tell you that you're not good or worthy enough for the life and relationships you truly desire.

Working experientially with the unconscious, and exploring aspects of Jung's archetypes, including the 'Hero', through character development and play, in this workshop you'll be invited to delve beyond your shadow and connect to the Hero within, where your true-self and inner-gold lies waiting to be discovered.

Tom Cowan

Tom Cowan is a Vajrasati yoga teacher, body worker, workshop facilitator, radical faerie and regularly supports Loving Men events.

He has a passion for nature connection work, awareness and meditative practices and also enjoys supporting group work within the LGBTQ community.

email Tom

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Rewilding - Exploring Connection to Self, Each Other and Nature

We will explore the urban green space of Clapham Common and spend time grounding, breathing and awakening our senses, meditatively receiving the more than human world around us.

We join together to welcome nature in with a series of practices, games and exercises to rewild our selves, strengthening the threads of connection, building resilience and community whilst having fun!

Dress for the weather and bring something dry to sit on.

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Ralf Jaroschinski

Ralf Jaroschinski was born in Germany, grew up in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, and trained as a professional dancer in Europe and New York, USA.

With over 30 years' experience in diverse dance techniques, Ralf directed the dance company of the German Hildesheim City Theater and choreographed for several dance companies.

He began dancing contact improvisation over 20 years ago, and during the past 15 years he has taught it in classes and workshops throughout Europe, Asia, the Americas, and Australia.

Ralf's website

Sensual Contact Improvisation

In contact improvisation, the zones where two (or more) bodies physically meet are the source of inspiration for sharing tactile sensations and for being in movement together with one another. This way of experiencing connection with ourselves and others is inclusive of our sensual, emotional and erotic bodies.

We'll find unique and direct ways of expressing ourselves with utmost ease, and at the same time, we'll be in close proximity with other men - a special constellation which evokes profound intimacy, great generosity and deeply felt joy.

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About Trust

The interactive exercises in this workshop are geared towards building trust among the participants through direct, physical communication and touch.

Once personal limits are tested, established, and respected, questions of responsibility and power will soften, and a feeling of unobstructed ease will enter the interactions. They might turn into continuous dances and even involve some acrobatic elements.

In any case, the participants will experience intimacy and discover that it can be beautiful and profoundly enjoyable to be able to trust.

Bodhi Nicholas Hunt

Bodhi Nicholas Hunt is a psychotherapist, 5Rhythms Dance & Mindfulness teacher. Bodhi has been teaching 5Rhythms for over 12 years for the LGBTQ community. He has a therapy practice working with shame/trauma and teaches a weekly movement class in London. He runs workshops in London, Europe, Russia and Asia.

He feels passionate that people have the potential to live a full, valuable and meaningful life with the capacity to heal from past difficulty inline with their values.

email Bodhi

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SWEAT - 5 Rhythms Ⓒ Movement Practice

Ignites creative action with breath (being) - no steps to learn. Instead we listen to our own body through movement and expand our physical vocabulary in relationship to both ourselves and others in the group.

Through the Rhythms we can begin to embrace feelings of compassion and courage and expand our capacity to love and be loved in the most brilliant way.

Come with an open mind and leave with a loving heart!

''I believe in the healing power of men coming together to dance, to celebrate as we have for millennium and this has been a focus for my teaching from the start'' - Bodhi

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Daan van Kampenhout

A shamanic practitioner for more than 25 years, Daan van Kampenhout has studied with traditional healers and shamanic teachers from various cultures (Lakota, Southern Ute, Sami and others). Combining elements of shamanic ritual and family constellations, he developed Systemic RitualĀ®.

Daan is the author of seven books. His writings have been translated in eleven languages. He works worldwide, creating rituals for different communities and groups. He lives in Amsterdam and Berlin.

Daan's website

email Daan

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Gay/Queer Ancestor Ritual

In each culture, in each generation, LGBTQ people are born. Each of us has gay/queer ancestors, although we do not know their names and faces because most of them were living hidden lives.

In this ritual, we experience the lineages of queerness as they stretch out throughout time. Monotheistic religion has tried to make us believe we are a mistake, but we are part of creation. Connecting to our queer ancestors throughout time gives us a new sense of belonging. Knowing where we come from, we discover unexpected roots and solid ground.

The Father's Yes

Many gay/queer men were not supported by their fathers to embrace their own gay/queerness. Although there are exceptions, most straight fathers felt at least ambivalent finding out their son is bi or gay or what they thought was their daughter is in fact a transman.

Many relationships between gay/queer sons and their fathers were defined by awkwardness, withdrawal, rejection or even outright violence and abuse.

In 'The Father's Yes' wo do a fluid community ritual in which all of us embody the positions of the (archtypical and individual) son and father, and that which is larger than the two, so we can see them both for who they truly are. In the different roles, we will gently interact with each other to make or break connections, to say goodbye or welcome each other anew.

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Love Dragon

Love Dragon is a queer researcher of human connections. Whether in dance, bondage or at the gaming table, he is teaching people the rules of how to gently meet each other with respect and fun.

His journey started early in his childhood with ballroom dancing, which later was replaced by Tango Argentino and Contact Improvisation.

Love Dragon is a tango teacher, a sacred intimate and body worker. He is also exploring Tarot and Bondage. Privately, he's a big board-game geek

email Love Dragon

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Queer Tango

Connect to your centre and dance with your partners to the music of your hearts.

In this brief workshop based on Queer Tango Argentino you will learn how to send and receive clear signals in order to move together, silently communicating via a tender connection. More than just a dance lesson, this is a body awareness training that will also teach you about nonviolence in partner dance.

The workshop is open for everyone, neither previous experience nor partners are required.

Rope Meditation

Surrender to the magic of the rope.

In a very simple introduction to bondage, you will learn to tie a safe and easy knot and how to bring yourself and your partner into a meditative state while exploring what is possible with a single rope and one knot.

You will switch roles to also receive a session, that will take you on a sensual journey towards calmness.

"... don't think bondage. Really think mediation. And maybe think of a home-coming."

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Tim Foskett

Tim Foskett is an accredited individual and group psychotherapist. He is a co-Founder and Director of Loving Men. He is a certified 5RhythymsⒸ Teacher and currently a Board member of the International Conscious Movement Teachers Association.

He has written three interactive workbooks for gay/bi men on Getting Ready for Relationships; Relationship Skills and Sex. These are available on his website.

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The Four-Fold Way - a recipe for Connection

This workshop uses the Four-Fold Way (first articulated by Shamanic Practitioner Angeles Arien) to create connection, and play with space, physical contact and verbal communication.

The Four-Fold Way invites us to:

  • Show Up
  • Pay Attention
  • Speak Your Truth without blame or judgement
  • Stay Open to the outcome.

We'll experiment with various exercises to practice the four strands and then put them together to experience intimate, unpredictable, consensual contact with others in the moment.

Games on the Common

In this workshop, weather permitting, we'll take to the Common and play games that are fun, connecting and give us opportunities to do things we don't usually do.

Who knows what connections we will make!

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Gavin Frank

Gavin Frank is a singer, voice facilitator, Kirtan leader, and musician. He has been empowering people from all walks of life to find, embody and express the fullness of their own true voice for the last 18 years.

He has made several recordings with the duo Madrum as has performed solo in a contemporary dance production at the Barbican.

Gavin's website

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Voice Power

Come and explore the full range, resonance and depth of your voice with others in a group.

Use your voice as a vehicle for transformation and self-empowerment.

We'll learn simple techniques that liberate, nurture and cultivate strong, confident voices from the inside out.

Practices may include chant, mantra, movement, improvisation and the Indian scale.

No vocal experience needed.

Manrutt Wongkaew

Dr. Manrutt Wongkaew is an independent creative director and visual artist. He has spent the last 16 years creating politically charged and emotionally engaged fashion designs, visual artwork and choreography.

His work has appeared in such publications as Vogue, British GQ, and the Guardian. Manrutt has also appeared on TEDx Talks and the BBC discussing the subjects of identity and motivation.

His work is never about fashion but how he pushes its boundaries to connect with light and shade of human emotion.

Manrutt's website

email Manrutt

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Drag Salon

Iris Apfel, a style icon age 96, once said:
"I say, dress to please yourself. Listen to your inner muse and take a chance. Wear something that says 'Here I am!' today."

Let's glam up and unleash our inner goddess. We will spank those inner critics with 50 shades of hot pink, false eyelashes and sky-high heels. We will challenge gender stereotypes and celebrate who we really are.

Please bring items you would like to wear. Be bold. Be brave. And most importantly, be you!

Nick Kientsch

Nick Kientsch learnt to meditate in 1990 and taught mindfulness as an undergraduate before moving to live in an urban Buddhist community for three years and then a Buddhist monastery for 6 years.

In 2009 he set up the gay/bi men’s mindfulness group. In 2012 Nick trained in providing the 8 week Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy Programme and now facilitates workplace mindfulness events and courses and evening courses.

He has trained in body work and now leads workshops around mindful intimacy.

Nick's website

Nick's mindfulness MeetUp Group

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Exploring intimacy - the power of touch with consent and clear boundaries

Starting with a mindfulness practice to ground awareness in the body, then connecting to the heart and a wish for our own well-being and that of others. Drawing on the work I’ve been doing recently with the wheel of consent and intimacy.

I'll then lead a workshop around exploring how we can come into connection with others whilst staying true to our boundaries. This will include pair work, sharing and group discussions.

The focus will be on experiential exercises that are based on establishing consent to then facilitate touch. It will be a clothed workshop, with the option to remove a shirt if agreed in the pair. But not fully nude.

JF Callens

JF Callens is a skilled Consultant and Coach with over 10 years’ experience in working managers and leaders to maximise their potential.

With a creative background in movement, psychology and theatre, he specialises in supporting participants increase their ability to have presence and impact and implement the necessary changes in themselves that will inspire others. He offers powerful and thought provoking sessions delivered in a caring and supportive environment.

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Self-Connection & Self-Regulation

An event like the Connections Festival can fill us with excitement, hopes, desires... but it can also leave us feeling overwhelmed, scared or intimidated- making it hard to connect and socialise with others.

During this creative and interactive workshop, you will explore how to access the resources you need to manage your nerves effectively and find the courage to show up and connect with others.

With lots of fun experiential learning, and some models and theories, together we will find ways to rediscover our centred selves.

Sam Cotton

Sam Cotton

Sam Cotton trained in solution-focused therapy with Uncommon Knowledge, and is a certified Hoffman Process Teacher, having lovingly facilitated countless hours of intense personal and spiritual development work.

Sam works as a one-to-one coach to support others to connect with their authentic self, and he also draws on a wealth of experience from his own healing journey which includes 12-step addiction recovery, integrative arts therapy and an innate passion for self-enquiry.

Sam's website

Deeper Connection in Relationship

Are you tired of bringing your past into the present? This workshop explores how we often unconsciously transfer our early childhood emotions onto our friends, sexual and romantic partners, work colleagues and even those we hardly know.

A mixture of discussion, practical exploration and visualisation, you will come away with a clear model to work with your own transferences and reconnect with your authentic self, leaving you free to connect with others from a place of wholeness.

Laurie Slade

Laurie Slade is a UKCP registered psychotherapist, in private practice in West London. He is a member of the Guild of Psychotherapists and the Gordon Lawrence Foundation for Social Dreaming.

Laurie has been involved in social dreaming since 2001, hosting sessions in a variety of settings, in the UK and internationally.. He is co-founder of the Queer Social Dreaming Matrix, running since 2016, a bi-monthly open access meeting in London for sexual minorities.

email Laurie

Social Dreaming Matrix

In the Social Dreaming, we share dreams and associations. We aren't there to interpret dreams for the dreamer - we're there to pool the resources of our dreaming minds, seeing where this takes us.

After the matrix has closed, we have space to reflect on the experience, identify emerging themes, and see what Connections we are making. For anyone interested in dreams, imagination, creativity and new thinking.